A 10 Week System to Rebuild Your Life After Betrayal.
Build a Future You Can Trust
Moving beyond outdated methods, and putting YOU first
The #1 Problem Clients Face
I get asked all the time and the #1 problems that my clients faced when healing from betrayal was doing it alone, without a proven roadmap leaving them stuck in emotional turmoil, mistrust, and confusion.
For a LIMITED TIME ONLY, join the Chaos to Clarity Group Program: A 10 Week Blueprint After Betrayal at a special launch price.
PLUS an exclusive 1:1 Rapid Recovery Strategy Session during the program, designed to cement your progress and amplify your breakthroughs.
“Helping people like you is my passion, I see the pain and confusion you are experiencing, but I’m only able to help a limited number of you through my 1:1 coaching programs.
So I Want To Change It ...
As I write this, I’ve spoken to over 220 individuals in 2024 alone, of which for 80% of those, I believe I could have done more. Quite frankly, you all deserve a break.
It’s realisations like this that hit me really hard.
That’s exactly why I’m creating this product, so I can help more of you get the support you need, without the barriers holding you back."
What’s Happening…
Introducing a straightforward, 10-week group program designed specifically to help betrayed spouses release anger and resentment.
Mastering their emotions and processing them effectively, so they can reclaim a sense of control.
This structured framework will help you:
Rebuild Trust in Yourself and Others by learning to set clear and healthy boundaries that honour your values.
Improve Communication Skills and be able to handle tough conversations with compassion and ease, even in challenging situations.
Release Resentment, and Forgive by letting go of anger and resentment holding you back from peace.
Envision and Create a New Normal, starting with identifying your core values and setting priorities that reflect who you truly are.
Acting in alignment with your values even when you are uncertain of where it leads and knowing what you want, and doing it even when it scares you.
All without:
Overwhelming therapy sessions that don't deliver actionable results
Rehashing the same pain over and over.
Relying on outdated, generic advice that ignores YOUR specific needs.
How It Works ...
Step 1
Discover Clarity and Strength
Break down the emotional chaos of infidelity with proven tools to understand your emotions, identify thought patterns, and regain control.
Step 2
Rebuild Trust and Emotional Stability
Learn practical strategies to rebuild trust, starting with yourself. Set boundaries, create transparency, and reclaim your personal power.
Step 3
Design a Future You Can Trust
Shift from victimhood to empowerment by envisioning and building a future aligned with your values.
Why It Works…
Traditional solutions often focus on couples or rely on endless talking, leaving YOU unsupported in your own healing journey.
This program flips the script.
Instead of waiting for others to change.
This framework equips you with actionable strategies to transform your life, regardless of your relationship’s future.
Instead of drowning in emotional chaos and struggling to make decisions, you’ll learn exactly how to calm your mind.
Respond with purpose, and confidently plan your next steps, whether it’s rebuilding your relationship or moving forward independently.
Who Am I to Help You?
Hi, I’m Luke Shillings. A few years ago, my life turned upside down when I discovered my wife had been unfaithful.
What I thought was a strong, loving marriage came crashing down in an instant.
The betrayal left me devastated, consumed by anger, self-doubt, and an endless loop of “why” and “what if” questions.
I felt completely lost questioning everything about my worth, my future, and even my ability to trust again.
At first, I did what most people do: I tried to push through the pain, bury it, or distract myself.
I spoke to friends and spent a lot of time seeking answers online, but nothing seemed to address the gnawing sense of emptiness and confusion inside.
I felt like I was running in circles, stuck in a cycle of anger, grief, and uncertainty about what to do next. It was exhausting.
But then something changed. I began to dig deeper into understanding what had happened.
I discovered tools and concepts that reshaped how I saw the betrayal, how I approached my own healing, and how I could move forward in a way that felt true to me.
This didn’t just help me process the infidelity; it helped me rebuild my confidence, redefine who I was, and regain trust, not just in others, but more importantly, in myself.
That journey wasn't easy...
It was worth it though. And it changed the course of my life.
I realised that combining what I had learned from the experience was not limited to just helping me, but also meant I could assist others who were struggling through the same kind of pain and confusion.
I knew I wanted to share these tools and methods with people who felt just as lost and overwhelmed as I once did.
Today, I’m a certified life and relationship coach, specialising in helping betrayed partners heal, grow, and thrive. Through my coaching programs, I guide clients on their own transformative journeys, helping them find clarity amidst the chaos, rebuild their confidence, and create lives they love, no matter what their relationships look like in the future.
I know firsthand how isolating and painful this experience can be, but I also know the power of taking control of your own healing.
My mission is to show you how to not only survive infidelity but to come out on the other side stronger, more grounded, and ready to embrace the next chapter of your life.
You’re not alone in this, and you don’t have to figure it out on your own. Let me show you the path forward because I’ve walked it myself.
Luke
A Breakdown Of Exactly What You're Getting…
In Module 1: Understanding Infidelity
You will
- Gain clarity about the psychological and emotional dynamics of infidelity.
- Explore the "why" behind betrayal to lay the foundation for your healing.
So that...
You stop replaying the affair over and over in your mind, desperately searching for answers.
Instead, you feel a sense of calm because you understand what happened, why it may have happened, and what it truly means for your relationship and your own healing.
In Module 2: Emotional Recovery
You will
- Identify and process emotions tied to betrayal.
- Master tools for emotional regulation and coping strategies.
So that...
When a memory or thought about the betrayal surfaces, it no longer sends you into a spiral of despair.
You know how to ground yourself, manage the intensity of the feeling, and move forward with clarity and purpose.
In Module 3: Trust Rebuilding
You will
- Create a personalised action plan for rebuilding trust.
- Learn how to establish boundaries and foster emotional security.
So that...
You stop questioning every interaction with your partner or doubting yourself at every turn.
Instead, you’ll feel secure knowing you’ve set clear boundaries and have a plan to hold both yourself and others accountable for rebuilding trust.
In Module 4: Enhancing Communication
You will
- Build effective communication skills for navigating difficult conversations.
- Learn how to express needs clearly and constructively.
So that...
You stop dreading difficult conversations, like addressing the affair or asking for what you need, because you now know exactly how to approach them with clarity and confidence.
When you express your needs, you feel heard and understood. Your words carry weight because you’ve learned how to communicate them constructively and effectively.
In Module 5: Forgiveness & Letting Go
You will
- Release anger and resentment with guided forgiveness exercises.
- Embrace emotional freedom by letting go of past hurt.
So that...
You stop carrying the heavy weight of anger and resentment everywhere you go. Instead, you feel a sense of lightness and freedom as you let go of the pain tied to the betrayal.
You stop replaying conversations and moments of betrayal in your mind, wishing you could change them.
Instead, you accept the past for what it is and focus your energy on creating a future you’re excited about.
Bonus Module 6: Creating a New Normal
You will
- Define your vision for the future based on your values and growth.
- Set actionable goals to craft a life you’re excited to live.
So that...
You stop feeling like you’re simply surviving day to day and start waking up with purpose, knowing exactly where you’re headed and how to get there.
Core Bonuses - What Else Is Included?
Rapid Recovery Strategy Session
A pre-program 1:1 Intro session to assess your situation, prioritise goals, and map out the next steps.
Exclusive Support Group Access
A private, supportive space for encouragement and connection.
Lifetime Access to Course Materials
Revisit all lessons and tools whenever you need them.
Emotional Resilience Cheat Sheet
Quick-reference tools for managing emotional triggers and thought patterns.
Live Q&A Sessions During the Program
Get your questions answered in real time during live group Q&A sessions. Receive direct feedback and personalised guidance tailored to your journey.
Here’s Proof It Works…
"Highly recommend this"
“I couldn’t stop replaying my wife’s affair in my mind. Every day felt like an endless loop of rumination and pain. Working with Luke gave me the balance of emotional support and practical tools I needed. He helped me process my feelings, build emotional resilience, and gain clarity about what I wanted for my future. Today, I’m not only stronger and more grounded in myself, but I’ve also used what I learned to improve every area of my life, from my relationships to my work. I finally feel free from the grip of the past.” - Jake
"My life changed forever"
“When I discovered my wife’s infidelity, I was consumed by anger and sleepless nights. Nothing seemed to help until I worked with Luke. He gave me the clarity I needed to make life-altering decisions, including whether to stay or move on. His guidance helped me navigate the divorce process with less pain than I ever thought possible. Today, I feel stronger and more in control of my life.” - John H
"Therapy didn’t help, but working with Luke..."
“I was stuck in grief and anger after my husband’s betrayal. Therapy didn’t help, but working with Luke gave me the tools I needed to shift my perspective and heal. Now, I feel confident, capable, and ready to face life on my terms.” - Beth
"His perspective was a revelation"
“After eight years of marriage, my partner’s affair left me drowning in anger and confusion. I didn’t know how to handle the overwhelming emotions until I found Luke’s podcast. His perspective was a revelation, and working with him became the turning point I desperately needed. Luke helped me dig deeper into my emotions and identify what really mattered to me. Today, I’m a better father and a more present co-parent. What started as devastation became an opportunity for profound growth.” - Remi
Self-compassion changed everything for me.
“Before this program, I saw myself as a negative person, short-tempered and stuck in my pain. But I’ve learned that how I speak to myself matters. When I started showing myself compassion, it started to reflect in my relationships too. I’m still on the journey, but now I believe I can get through this.” - Francis
"Looking back, I see how far I’ve come."
“At the start, I was consumed by anger and pain. But now, when I reread my early journal entries, I can see how much I’ve changed. I never thought I would reach a place where I could understand—not agree with, but understand—how this happened. That clarity has given me so much peace.” - Charlotte
"it transformed my entire approach to life"
“The emotional rollercoaster of infidelity was tearing me apart. I couldn’t find a way forward, and my marriage was on the brink. Luke’s program changed everything. He helped me break free from those emotional cycles, regain clarity, and focus on what truly mattered. Now, my marriage is stronger than ever, and I’m more confident in myself and my decisions. This journey didn’t just save my relationship, it transformed my entire approach to life.” - Mike
"I now feel more grounded and capable"
“After my husband’s affair, I was overwhelmed by grief and anger. It felt like my whole life had been flipped upside down, and I didn’t know where to turn. Luke created a space where I could process those emotions and rebuild my confidence. He challenged me to see things differently and take charge of my healing. While I’m still on this journey, I now feel more grounded and capable of navigating whatever comes next.” - Anna
"This program helped me see the bigger picture."
“For years, I thought I had control over how others behaved, but this experience taught me that real change starts with me. I can’t control others, but I can change how I think, and that shift has been everything.” - Michelle
"I am in a much better place now than when I started."
“At the beginning, I felt overwhelmed, trying to juggle everything at once. But this program gave me the space and tools to process things at my own pace. The conversations we had were more important than I ever realized. I’ve learned that I don’t have to fix everything—healing is not my job alone.” - Fran
"completely free from anxiety"
“When I met Luke, I was constantly worrying about the future, consumed by anxiety after my husband’s betrayal. Luke helped me realise that many of my fears were just stories I’d created in my mind. Together, we crafted a plan to handle my challenges, and I finally felt like I had control again. For the first time in months, I had a day completely free from anxiety. It turns out the power to feel better was within me all along, I just needed someone to help me see it.” - Emily
"With his help, I decided to stay"
“When I found Luke, I was torn between staying in my marriage and walking away. The pain made it impossible to think clearly. Luke guided me with patience and empathy, helping me explore my emotions and rebuild communication with my husband. With his help, I decided to stay, and our marriage is now stronger than ever. The trust and connection we’ve rebuilt are deeper than I thought possible, and I’ve gained confidence not just in my relationship, but in myself.” - Michelle
100% Money Back Guarantee
Try the Chaos to Clarity Group Program: A 10 Week Blueprint After Betrayal risk-free for 14 days. Complete the first two modules*, and if you don’t feel significantly more empowered, we’ll refund your investment.
This Is For You If…
You’ve been betrayed in your relationship and feel like your world has been turned upside down.
You feel stuck, lost, or overwhelmed trying to make sense of your emotions.
You want to rebuild trust, whether that’s in your partner, in others, or most importantly, in yourself.
You’re seeking practical tools, not just endless talking. If you want actionable strategies, reflective
exercises, and proven techniques to create real change, this is for you.
You’re open to growing through this experience. Whether you stay in the relationship or choose to move on, this is about your growth, your healing, and becoming the best version of yourself.
This Is Not For You If…
You’re looking for a quick fix. Healing from betrayal requires time, effort, and self-reflection. If you’re not ready to commit to the process, this program isn’t the right fit.
You want to focus only on your partner’s actions. If your goal is to change or control your partner instead of prioritising your own healing and growth, this program won’t meet your needs.
You’re unwilling to take responsibility for your recovery. While betrayal isn’t your fault, taking ownership of your healing is key. This program focuses on empowering you, not placing blame.
You’re looking for couples counselling. This program is designed for individual growth and personal transformation, not as a substitute for joint therapy.
You’re not ready to move past the pain of betrayal. If you’re unwilling to start letting go of anger, resentment, and blame, this program may feel premature.
I Know This Path…
Because I’ve been there, I know how devastating infidelity can be, and I’m committed to helping others heal and thrive.
I believe everyone deserves the chance to heal and reclaim their life after betrayal, regardless of where they are starting from.
Offering these tools and support at this SPECIAL PRICE makes it possible for more people (like you) to
experience life-changing support when they need it most.
Want More Personalised Support?
Step Into Proximity
Proximity includes everything inside the Chaos to Clarity Group Program, but with a powerful upgrade:
Three PRIVATE 1:1 COACHING SESSIONS with Luke spread across the 10 weeks.
This option is designed for those who want to go even deeper, faster.
You’ll still benefit from the community experience, group breakthroughs, and weekly sessions—but with added time to work on the unique challenges, decisions, or questions you’re facing in your personal situation.
Whether you're:
Struggling to get clarity on your next steps...
Working through a particularly complex relationship dynamic...
Or simply craving more individual support as you navigate the chaos...
Proximity gives you just that.
"Proximity changes everything. When you’re close to the work, and the guide leading it, you grow faster, deeper, and more intentionally."
Chaos to Clarity: Standard vs Proximity
Proximity is ideal if you want more direct access to Relationship expert and Infidelity recovery specialist Luke, personalised guidance, and faster progress through your biggest roadblocks.
Here’s What to Do Now
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Still have Questions ... here the most common ones
I’m not sure if I want to stay in my relationship, will this still help me?
Yes. This program is designed to support you, regardless of whether you stay or go. It focuses on rebuilding self-trust, processing emotions, and giving you the clarity and confidence to move forward.
What if I can’t attend all the live calls?
No problem. All calls are recorded and shared in a private folder, so you can catch up in your own time. You won’t miss a thing.
Do I get any support between sessions?
Yes! You’ll have ongoing support through the private WhatsApp group, where you can share wins, ask questions, and connect with others on the same path. - If you want to take that work deeper or require more 1:1 coaching support then the Proximity package is for you.
What if I want more personalised support during the program?
That’s exactly what the Proximity version is designed for. It gives you everything from the group program plus three private 1:1 sessions with Luke to go deeper into your personal journey.
Is this the right fit for me if I’m still in the very early stages after discovering the betrayal?
This program is best suited to those who have had at least 3–6 months of distance from D-Day and have already tried at least one other form of support, whether therapy, reading, guidance from friends or even another program. If you’re still feeling completely emotionally dysregulated or overwhelmed day-to-day, you may need more immediate, stabilising support before jumping into this deeper work.
Is this a replacement for therapy?
No, this is not therapy. While it can be highly therapeutic, it’s a coaching-based program focused on action, awareness, and mindset shifts. Many participants find it complements their therapy beautifully.
